Today saw an article in the newspaper, "the price of love" after a long look into meditation, because in real life, such a situation too much, in this materialistic society, there are many career successful, But family life was plunged into a lonely wolf. Material and spiritual progress simultaneously, harmonious family and career, and that is the real success. Article about a couple, who are a loving couple, sharing weal and woe, through a variety of setbacks of life, but the couple insisted common dream, a common struggle, finally won a career of their own, start their own business, a hard, a harvest. Flourishing career, gradually with the strength of the economy, an increase of several stores, wife Aqiu responsible for managing a store, Aqiu husband to take care of a few other stores. They are very busy, single-minded wife are devoted to the cause, to do business is also booming. But gradually, Aqiu husband more and more entertainment, the time to go home too late, Aqiu did not care, she trusts her husband, believes his man, after all, through thick and thin for many years. Can sometimes things in life to do with the original violation, sometimes considered impossible to happen, but it happens to occur, the emotional life situation has emerged, one day, Aqiu suddenly received a strange phone, is a fight over a girl, phone audacity to say a lot of nasty words. Aqiu then realized that her family have been a third party, when her husband admitted the facts, Aqiu heart is like fall through the ice, like falling into the abyss. She is also not prepared mind, like a lightning bolt, feeling dark eyes. Faced with such a trusted husband, what it felt so strange, all these years, and efforts to pay, in return for a ruthless betrayal, and why the material life improved, and the feelings it fades? When Aqiu husband be tempted outside lost sense of proportion, and then look at his wife, that is the yellow face, I feel out of tune, Aqiu busy career in recent years, but it also ignores its own peacetime special thrifty, for Dress is not pay attention, time rush, labor and called her youth scrubbing without leaving any traces. Look look old. Of course a third party to take advantage of, life appeared fatigued. Originally peaceful family, but now utter confusion. After the quarrel fell into the Cold War. Sometimes life is so unpredictable, I thought eternal feelings can withstand the test of all the outside world, the face of temptations, feeling has become vulnerable, this is life. Thought that love is beautiful, love today is so embarrassed, once the vows and promises blowing in the wind inside, never thought that would be heartbreaking, or people leaving the sad tears, who love it just the moment lingering pain of the heart, are you destroyed the ruthless, the intentions of love, in return for extreme pain, your ruthless betrayal of people can not afford. Aqiu feel particularly uncomfortable, as when she was a little calm, quietly reflect on themselves, their marriage come this far today, she also has done a bad place, usually a lack of communication and exchange with her husband. She felt the need to take calm. It proves everything needs careful operation, if the heart has thoughts, thoughts will be scattered, and there are many career flow, coupled with a third party has squandered, career plummeted, business is good business mess, people look become deserting, malaise, this time a third party has disappeared without a trace, then the original face unreserved exposed. People only know when it lost valuable, later lost to know and treasure, then recall Aqiu good, had a happy family, because he did not understand much treasure, but broke Aqiu heart. Regret guilt deep remorse. He sincerely apologize to Qiu, Qiu think the original goodness of her husband, because the moment of confused and make mistakes, to see he is really aware of his mistake, decided to give him another chance, she used the woman's kindness and tolerance forgiveness him, but fortunately he has self-knowledge, realized Aqiu is his favorite, for Aqiu better than ever, the cause is also very motivated. Life and return to calm. Qiu also realize marriage is a science, you need two people intentions to run, and then a busy and do not neglect their own, learn to treat yourself, do an intellectual woman, make a woman full of wisdom. Things change, people will become mature, who also impulse and paid the price, go go, people always want to learn to grow up and experience life, pain is inevitable struggle. Also sad tears, and had sadly broken heart, this is the price of love. Let the wind go past all! Not through introspection life is of no value, it is true, is the premise of material abundance of joy and happiness, but we often find that sometimes the material sufficient, joy and happiness did not increase with the Japanese gather because of our pursuit of material at the same time We lost another premise, the spirit of the synchronization abundance. When the material to fill the limited space, the spirit gradually displaced, they may find themselves doing all looking for something, but is most likely to be discarded worldly possessions, and so, while the material and spiritual progress, achievements will be more beautiful life.
    今天在報(bào)上看到一篇文章《愛的代價(jià)》看后陷入久久的沉思，因?yàn)樵诂F(xiàn)實(shí)生活中，這樣的情況太多太多，在這個(gè)物欲橫流的社會(huì)中，有很多事業(yè)成功的人士，但家庭生活卻陷入一片狼寂。物質(zhì)與精神的同時(shí)進(jìn)步，家庭與事業(yè)的和諧，那才是真正的成功。 文章中講述了一對(duì)夫妻，曾經(jīng)是一對(duì)恩愛的夫妻，患難與共，經(jīng)歷了生活的多種挫折，但夫妻兩人都堅(jiān)持共同的夢(mèng)想，共同的奮斗，終于贏得了一份屬于自己的事業(yè)，開創(chuàng)自己的事業(yè)，一份耕耘，一份收獲。事業(yè)如日中天，漸漸地經(jīng)濟(jì)上有了實(shí)力，店面增加了好幾個(gè)，妻子阿秋負(fù)責(zé)管理一個(gè)店面，阿秋的老公打理另外幾個(gè)店面。兩人都很忙碌，妻子一門心思都投入到事業(yè)中，生意也做的紅紅火火。 可是漸漸地，阿秋的老公應(yīng)酬也越來(lái)越多了，回家的時(shí)間也很晚了，阿秋也沒有在意，她信任她的老公，相信他的為人，畢竟都同甘共苦多年。 可人生中的事情有時(shí)就事與原違，有時(shí)認(rèn)為不可能發(fā)生的事情，卻偏偏發(fā)生了，感情生活卻出現(xiàn)了狀況，一天，阿秋忽然接到一個(gè)陌生電話，是一個(gè)女孩打過(guò)來(lái)的，在電話里厚顏無(wú)恥地說(shuō)了許多難聽的話。阿秋這時(shí)才意識(shí)到，她的家庭已經(jīng)出現(xiàn)了第三者，當(dāng)她的老公承認(rèn)了事實(shí)，阿秋的心就像掉入了冰窟，就像掉進(jìn)萬(wàn)丈深淵。她一點(diǎn)心里準(zhǔn)備也沒有，如同晴天霹靂，感覺眼前一片漆黑。 面對(duì)如此信任的老公，一下卻覺得如此的陌生，這些年所有的付出與努力，卻換來(lái)是無(wú)情的背叛，為什么物質(zhì)生活改善了，而感情卻變淡了？當(dāng)阿秋的老公被外界的誘惑迷失了分寸，再看看自己的老婆，覺得是黃臉婆了，覺得格格不入了，阿秋這幾年忙于事業(yè)，卻也忽略了自己，平時(shí)特別節(jié)儉，對(duì)于打扮一點(diǎn)也不重視，歲月匆匆，勞作竟把她的青春洗刷的不留痕跡?？雌饋?lái)顯得蒼老。當(dāng)然第三者乘虛而入，生活也出現(xiàn)了審美疲勞。原本平靜的家庭，如今卻雞犬不寧。爭(zhēng)吵之后卻陷入冷戰(zhàn)。 生活有時(shí)就是那么難以預(yù)料，原本以為永恒的感情能經(jīng)受外界的一切考驗(yàn)，而面對(duì)種種誘惑，感情卻顯得不堪一擊，這就是生活。原以為愛情很美，愛到今天卻是如此的狼狽，曾經(jīng)的誓言和諾言飄在風(fēng)里面，從不以為，會(huì)讓人心碎，還是讓人留下心酸的淚水，曾經(jīng)的愛難道只是瞬間的纏綿，傷痛的心，被你無(wú)情的催毀，用心的愛，卻換來(lái)萬(wàn)分的痛，你的無(wú)情背叛讓人無(wú)法承受。阿秋的心情特別的難受，當(dāng)她冷靜一點(diǎn)的時(shí)候，靜靜反省自己，她們的婚姻今天走到這一步，她自己也有做的不好的地方，平時(shí)與老公缺少溝通與交流。她覺得需要好好冷靜。 通過(guò)實(shí)踐證明，任何事情都需要用心的經(jīng)營(yíng)，如果心有雜念，心思就會(huì)分散，事業(yè)上也有諸多不順，加之有第三者的揮霍，事業(yè)一落千丈，好好的生意卻經(jīng)營(yíng)的一塌糊涂，人一下變得頹唐，萎靡不振，這時(shí)第三者已消失的無(wú)影無(wú)蹤，這時(shí)把原本的面目毫無(wú)保留的暴露出來(lái)了。 人只有失去的時(shí)候才知道可貴，失去以后才知道珍惜，這時(shí)回想起阿秋的好，原本幸福的家，因?yàn)樗欢嗾湎?，卻傷透阿秋的心。后悔內(nèi)疚深深的自責(zé)。他誠(chéng)懇的向阿秋道歉，阿秋認(rèn)為原本本性善良的老公，因?yàn)橐粫r(shí)的糊涂而犯錯(cuò)，看到他是真正意識(shí)到自己的錯(cuò)，決定再給他一次機(jī)會(huì)，她用女人的善良與寬容原諒了他，好在他也有自知之明，意識(shí)到阿秋是他的最愛，對(duì)阿秋比以前更好了，對(duì)事業(yè)也很上進(jìn)。生活又重歸于平靜。阿秋也意識(shí)到婚姻就是一門學(xué)問，需要兩個(gè)人用心去經(jīng)營(yíng)，再忙碌也不要忽略自己，學(xué)會(huì)善待自己，做一個(gè)知性的女人，做一個(gè)智慧充實(shí)的女人。 世事的變遷，人也會(huì)變得成熟，曾經(jīng)也為一時(shí)的沖動(dòng)而付出了代價(jià)，走吧 走吧，人總要學(xué)著自己長(zhǎng)大，人生難免經(jīng)歷苦痛掙扎。也曾傷心流淚，與曾黯然心碎，這是愛的代價(jià)。讓往事都隨風(fēng)去吧！未經(jīng)過(guò)反省的人生是沒有價(jià)值的，誠(chéng)然，物質(zhì)的豐盈是快樂與幸福的前提，但我們往往發(fā)現(xiàn)，有時(shí)候物質(zhì)充足了，快樂和幸福卻沒有與日聚增，原因在于我們追求物質(zhì)的同時(shí)失去了另一個(gè)前提，精神的同步豐盈。當(dāng)物質(zhì)填滿有限的空間，精神漸漸流離失所的時(shí)候，可能發(fā)現(xiàn)，自己拼盡全力尋找的東西不過(guò)是最容易被舍棄的身外之物了，所以，物質(zhì)與精神的同時(shí)進(jìn)步，才會(huì)成就更美的人生。